The death of Paula Yates ( the former wife of famous Irish musician
Bob Geldof ) , bad memories for her daughter Peaches Geldof, who also
have to live with the burden of a family tendency mental illness , the
psychologist said as quoted by The Sydney Morning Herald .
Peaches Geldof is a model and socialite who was found dead at his home in Kent, south-east London.
14 years earlier, Yates died of a heroin overdose when Peaches was 11 years old .
Peaches The cause of death is unknown , but the day before she died she posted a photo with her mother as a child in Instagram .
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Children who experience premature death his parents before his teenage
years , can have all sorts of psychiatric problems , " says psychologist
Michael Carr - Gregg . " That experience can also make the child experiencing pathological grief when he could not cope with the serious loss .
"Research shows , a sense of loss as a child can increase the
likelihood of substance abuse , criminal behavior and low achievement in
school .
Dr Carr - Gregg said while children under the age of five years was
unable to understand the generality and certainty of a death , then when
the adult the child will become a person who is much more fragile .
" During adolescence you are deprived of your parents and it creates
turbulence . If a parent dies suddenly at a time when you were weaned
from them , the child will feel guilty and confused " .
" Grief as a teenager is a very disturbing process . They do not
grieve like adults and they need a lot of support to get through . These
children grow faster as a result of the experience . "
Beyondblue chief executive , Kate Carnell , said the sudden death of a
parent at the " critical transition age " can lead to mental health
problems , panic attacks and post- traumatic stress disorder may be .
" Often children experience a high level of guilt and asked if they could change anything . " In 2012 , Peaches Geldof assessed difficulty and poignant by the tragic and sudden death of his mother .
" I remember the day in which my mother died , and it remains
difficult to talk about. I went to school the next day because my father
mentally calm and survive , " he said once .
The 25-year -old woman has also been admitted deeply influenced by his
parents' divorce in 1996 and revealed how he was taking drugs during
his teenage years were turbulent .
" The worst thing that happened to me stems from my parents' divorce , it really affects my life , " he said .
Following divorce Peaches father , Bob Geldof , Yates 's own struggle
with mental problems , after the death of her lover Michael Hutchence 's
death in 1997 .
The late been admitted to a psikiatrsis in 1998 that he was depressed
and had attempted suicide two months later which caused him to lose
custody of her children .
Dr Carr - Gregg said children with parents who were depressed were
four times more likely to experience a mental disorder and had a 40
percent chance of experiencing depression when moved to the age of 20
years .
" If both parents are depressed then you have a 50 percent chance of experiencing depression , " he said as he told his son to inherit his parents' mental illness .
But he said not all children are destined to repeat the genetic parents .
" Depending on one's temperament and how much support . Enough we can build resilience ourselves . Even if you come from a background of misery you can replace those conditions . "
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